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nikb7a
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Feeling lonely. I want to learn to enjoy solitude
Good night!
Five months ago, I gave birth to a child.
Two months before the birth, problems started in my family—both moral and financial. Also, a few days before the birth, I had a fight with my best friend, who was the closest person to me emotionally. I’ve tried to restore our communication a couple of times, but it’s been in vain—the person doesn’t want to talk to me.
After the birth, my husband and I often argue. He belittles me and uses things I’ve confided in him against me. I always end up taking the blame and apologizing after our fights. I also have an aunt I talk to, but I can’t share everything with her or tell her what’s truly on my mind.
I feel like there’s no one in my life I can share my thoughts with without judgment or to get an outside perspective. There are a couple of close acquaintances, but I can’t share anything deeply personal with them either.
I understand and feel that I’m lonely.
How can I find enjoyment in this and accept it?
Five months ago, I gave birth to a child.
Two months before the birth, problems started in my family—both moral and financial. Also, a few days before the birth, I had a fight with my best friend, who was the closest person to me emotionally. I’ve tried to restore our communication a couple of times, but it’s been in vain—the person doesn’t want to talk to me.
After the birth, my husband and I often argue. He belittles me and uses things I’ve confided in him against me. I always end up taking the blame and apologizing after our fights. I also have an aunt I talk to, but I can’t share everything with her or tell her what’s truly on my mind.
I feel like there’s no one in my life I can share my thoughts with without judgment or to get an outside perspective. There are a couple of close acquaintances, but I can’t share anything deeply personal with them either.
I understand and feel that I’m lonely.
How can I find enjoyment in this and accept it?
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